Well first off, I would like to apologize for the long absence of me writing on this blog. There has been several reasons. First, I have been very busy with teaching and second, it seams that there isn't as much for to write about. It doesn't feel like there is that much new and exciting things that feel worth me blogging about. I guess that is a good thing, it means that I look at Mozambique as more of a home, rather than a vacation. But, there have been some things that have happened in the last few months, that I would like to share with you.
The Visit
Back in June, I had a friend from the states come to visit me at my post
in Mozambique. I think that I mentioned that she was coming. Well, she came and I think had a good time. It was nice to have a familiar face around and it was fun to get her reaction of this country. The ways things are done, the pace at which they are done and the interactions with people. After living here for a year, you start to forget your reaction to Africa, when you first get off the plane and you spend your first week or month in a new and unfamiliar surrounding. Seeing someone experience it for the first time, was fun for me and new and exciting for her.
I had forgotten what it was like the first time I boarded a Chapa, the public transportation, and sitting on the uncomfortable seats, driving down a bumpy and un-maintained road, crammed in with 18 other people. I had forgotten what it was like to kill the first chicken, and then watch it being prepared. All this seamed less exciting to me and just another day, but seeing her experience it for the first time, brought back a little more excitement into the experience.
We did spend a lot of time in Namaacha, so that she could see my day to day life and experience a little more of Africa, than your typical tourist gets to experience.
We went to the Inhambane province, which happens to be the biggest tourist spot in Mozambique. She was volunteering for two weeks, so I accompanied her there. We
spent most of our time on the beaches of Tofo, which was beautiful. We went swimming, horseback riding and rode some quad bikes. We took along my little host brother to give him that experience, which was fun to see his reaction to a different Mozambique, that he had never experienced before.
We also spent some time in Swaziland, which was mostly going to the game reserve and seeing all the wildlife. You can't see much wildlife in Mozambique. The government is trying to bring
back the animals, but during the Civil War all the animals left the country and haven't really come back yet. So, see as how I am right on the border of Swaziland, we spent one night in Swaziland and went on a walking Safari and a driving Safari and saw a lot of animals. Although we did not get to see the Lion, which I was hoping to see.
The Wedding
For probably about five months my host family had been talking about this wedding of their cousin in Maputo. It was supposed to be this huge get together and this big event. The wedding was supposed to start at 9:00 at the church in Maputo. So, me being the person who needs to be on time. I came with my two host siblings and showed up with the two of them at 8:50ish. I found the church completely empty. (Now just so you understand, in Mozambique nothing is on time.) I decided to call my host mom and dad to see where everyone was. they had came down the night before to help prepare. I figured that we must have been at the wrong church. They told me to just wait there and people would start to show up soon. By 10:00 we were still the only ones there. By 10:30 we decided to walk around a little. By 11:00 my host mom called wondering where we were, as if we were late. By 11:30 we arrived back at the church, to find everyone standing around waiting for the bride and groom to arrive.
A side note: Everyone in Mozambique gets married on Saturday. Every church is booked solid. So if you have a church for 9:00, you should make a point to be on time, because there is probably another wedding coming up after yours.
By 12:00 the preacher comes out and asks if the bride and groom are here. We of course say no. The preacher then says, well you have to go find another church, because the next wedding is ready to enter. So by 12:30 they have secured another church. Everyone that knows where the church is gets into a car and drives there, which leaves all the people from Namaacha who have no idea where this church is to walk to the church which is supposedly very close.
The next thing I know, I am being led down the slums of Maputo, dressed in my nicest clothes, oh and I am the only white person I can see. My host family has no idea where we are going. So after we get lost, we start asking everyone we can see, where the nearest church is. Finally we find this run down brick church in the center of Maputo's largest slum. It was a good thing it wasn't raining,
because there was holes in the roof and in the side of the building and the floor was dirt, which would not have been a good combination with a white wedding dress. Everyone else seamed to be okay with this, but we went from a nice large church to this one that was barely standing up. The next big wind storm could have knocked it down.
I guess the moral of the story is, that if you say you will be their at a certain time, be there.
Later that night we had a reception far outside of Maputo. It actually took us several hours to get to the reception. But most of that time was waiting for Chapa's to come and pick us up. Once at the reception, it was really nice and well done. But it doesn't make for an interesting blog story, so I will stop here.